Relationships tend to be less formal and driven more by personal connection than strict hierarchical roles in Western societies and increasingly in traditionally collectivist cultures. Even though the father-in-law is still regarded with respect, the focus now shifts more toward developing a friendly and supportive relationship. In these contexts, the father-in-law often acts as:
A source of support and wisdom: He might give you tips on life, talk about his experiences, or help you with something. He can be a useful resource for the daughter-in-law in understanding the upbringing, family history, and peculiarities of her spouse. A link to the family: By sharing stories, traditions, and assisting the daughter-in-law in navigating the dynamics of the family, he can make her feel like she is part of her new family. A comforting figure: When compared to the mother-in-law, the father-in-law can sometimes provide a relationship that is more laid-back or less emotionally charged. This makes it easier for the daughter-in-law to confide in him or just enjoy his company without feeling judged or looked at. A partner in the role of grandparenting (if applicable): When children are born, their shared role as grandparents (or future grandparents) frequently strengthens the bond, establishing new common ground and bringing joy to everyone involved.
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